I used to be such a romantic, such a reach for the stars and lasso the moon type of person when it came to love. Give it all I got, all of me or nothing…. in fact all of me was not even enough, I would dig even farther to find more to give the … More Love is a battlefield, I mean a Playground.
I suck at letting relationships go. I am that girl, that girl that decides to jump off the cliff and end them, but then on the way down, I grab the ledge and hang there endlessly. Leaving me stuck somewhere between jumping and using all my power to pull myself back in to the standing … More The never ending story
I remember the days my heart physically hurt, when I thought I could no longer go on. I remember thinking , I never want to love again because I could not survive this pain again. But the truth is , I loved all the way through it, and even while love was breaking my heart, … More Flowers in a jar…
The older I get the more I wish I had the wisdom I have now as a Grandparent when I had my kids, I think about all the things I taught my kids, the things I told them were important about life and living and now I think of what I want to tell my … More A letter to my girls
I am heading in to my third year after divorce. I have done my share of soul-searching, taken a long hard look at myself and the role I play in the inability of keeping a long-term relationship. One of the things I have turned up under foot is that I tend to want to rescue … More RESCUE ME
How do you date backwards? It’s a question I have been asking myself for the last year now, Who thinks like that? I do, so here is my question explained. When I was young I dated like this: I saw a boy, a cute boy of course- my kind of cute, probably not yours. … More Dating backwards
When I was married the second time ( yep, I am the try try again girl),my favorite day and time of the week was Sunday Morning. I always woke up before my husband , sat on my deck and watched the sun come up. After he woke up , both of us still in … More Sundays