Splattered Paint

I sit across from ex-husband number 2 at breakfast. The waiter says ” It’s really cool that you guys get along so well”. My ex laughs and says: ” It wasn’t always like this, there was a time we couldn’t be in the same state as each other”. I say:  ” And that is when … More Splattered Paint

The Haunting

I don’t know what it is….. The fact that it’s been four years for me and I haven’t been able to move on and find someone else? OR The fact that you seem to move from woman to woman so seamlessly, as if to brush a fly off your shirt sleeve and welcome the next … More The Haunting

The long haul

“If you change partners every time it gets tough or you get a little dissatisfied, then I don’t think you get the richness that’s available in a long-term relationship.” — said Jeff Bridges.   And if you would have said this to me ten years ago I might have blew it off, turned the other … More The long haul

Friday with Friends, straight from the dirty laundry pile.

I love my friends, really if I hadn’t already known how Important they were before my divorce, before the heartbreak , before I sunk so low I didn’t know if I would ever make it back to a world with color again,  I learned my lesson well over the last three years.  These gals and … More Friday with Friends, straight from the dirty laundry pile.